Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts

Thursday, May 10, 2012

Fianakaviana

It's over. The study abroad experience that I have been waiting for my whole high school and college careers is over. Although it is physically over, my memories will be forever with me. I also know that my experiences and contacts I have made in Madagascar have made such an impact on me that I know I will return to the island some day. 


What I am missing the most right now is the relationships I have forged throughout my time there. Most of all, through my homestays with the families that opened their doors up to me and made me a part of their "Fianakaviana" the Malagasy word for family. 


Here is a look through three and a half months of family fun...

















I am going to finish this post off with an excerpt from a journal entry I wrote on the plane to Mauritius-


Probably one of the most meaningful experiences in Madagascar were my experience with my homestay in Tana. I miss everyone so much right now. They took it upon themselves to make sure that I had everything I needed. They would buy me my favorite fruits, cook my favorite foods and even would buy me a celebratory seltzer each time I returned for an excursion. I spent a total of five weeks with this family. It was broken up throughout the course of the semester with excursions and ISP in between but, each time I left I would think about how lucky I was to have such love from these individuals. They treated me as I was one of their own- and that was so meaningful to me considering the first few weeks were rough in terms of homesickness and illness. When I got sick they made sure I had everything I needed and were there every step of the way as I was running to the toilet. 


My family made a point of showing me all around the city so I could get a look at Tana first through a tourists eyes, by going to the zoo and the park Gasikara and later, through a Malagasy's eyes, taking the taxi be's until I was comfortable navigating the overwhelming city that is Tana.


What is most important is the connection I shared with them. As you can see by these above pictures, we really were just goofballs together and each moment with them involved joking and laughter. They are constantly looking out for each other and are nothing but supportive and helpful. This is part of the Malagasy culture which puts a large emphasis on family but it is also the nature of this family to be selfless. For example, at the end of my stay I asked my mother a question that had been plaguing me for ages "What do you do with the extra rice that we don't eat at meals?" She answered that they either eat it at the next meal and the rest of the leftovers she gives to a lady that lives close by- and by "live" I mean she lives on the street. My host mother gave our extra food away to a starving woman knocking on our door every day. 


I wish more people i this world were like this. 


SIT gives the families a stipend for having students live with them. The last week of my ISP I lived with them so I was responsible for paying them. 


They gave me the money back at the end of my stay. 


These people, Bakoly, Olivia, Ainé and Joé have done so much for me throughout these past three and a half months. I cannot thank them enough for making my experience in Madagascar something I will never forget as long as I live. I am so thankful to have forged the relationships I have with these individuals. They truly are so special. 


I hope to return the favor to them one day. I know I will see them again. 






I love you all and I apologize for being horrible at updating and for having this be such a sappy post. For those of you that do not know, I am in the paradise island of Mauritus right now doing some SCUBA diving for a few days. More to come on that soon!



Sunday, March 25, 2012

no electricity, no running water, no problem.

Hello all! I am sorry it has been so long, but unfortunately I was not only without internet for quite a while, but without running water and electricity as well. But you will hear all about that later- In my last post, I gave a little snapshot about what the rest of my time in Madagascar was looking like, where I have been, where I am going to go and what I am going to do. As many of you know, I spent that last week south of Tana in and around the second largest city in  Madagascar called Antsirabe. First off, the road to Anstirabe was absolutely stunning. The highlands of Madagascar (basically the center of the country) are made up of landscapes of mountains, valleys and beautiful farmland. The region south of Tana, the Antsirabe region is actually volcanic, which makes it very fertile it is also pretty temperate which allows for a wide variety of crops to grow. Needless to say, I ate pretty well down there. 

So to just summarize our itinerary, we left for Antsirabe last Thursday morning (3/15). Our plan was to stay in the city for two nights (Thursday and Friday) and then on Saturday morning head out to Betafo, a town south of the city which was the contact point for our village homestays. Saturday was the start of the homestay and it lasted until last Thursday morning (3/22) when we were picked up. 


To start off with- our academic director surprised us upon our arrival to Antsirabe with a tour of the Star brewery! If I have not mentioned Star before, it is a company that basically manufactures coke products for all of madagascar, spite, fanta etc. Also- all those water bottles labelled "Eau Vive" that you have seen in various photos- the vazaha water of choice- that is manufactured here too. And finally, THB (the horses beer) is the backbone of the star company. You literally cannot go anywhere in Madagascar without seeing THB signs or ads or the beer itself. its everywhere. (unfortunately, for it being so popular, its really not that good- I prefer the other beer that star manufactures called Gold.)


So, to make a long story short, we got a tour of the brewery. It was pretty cool. Everything seemed pretty sophisticated too. Everything was automated- they even manufactured their own yellow crates here as well. Just to note, in Madagascar glass bottles like beer bottles and drink bottles are reused, so one returns the bottles after use, and they are shipped back to this factory to be sanitized and reused. Interesting huh? Anyways, the factory tour was cool. I got to see a lot of beer being made. They whip out 500,000 bottles of beer a day (and the bottles are the equivalent to the double sized bottles in the US). Unfortunately for us there was no free beer at the end of the tour...(just to note- the drinking age here is 18-)


So, for the remainder of the day and the next that we were in Antsirabe, we paid some visits to some local contacts ], prepped for the village stay, and explored. I wanted to post this picture of the produce that I saw at one of the markets here one- because it is a beautiful array or fruits and veggies and two- to give you an idea of what they grow in this area and how fertile the land is here. 

Anyways, our stay in Antsirabe had to come to a close at some point and on Saturday morning we were all packed back in the sprinter and off to Betafo to face the unknown....


After paying a few viits to local authorities, we packed into private taxi brousses which dropped us off at our respectie homestays. Here is an example, and a beatiful view, of what we had to get across in order to even access some of our houses. 


Unfortunately some weren't that accessible. After almost kareening down that dirt hill in the former picture- we had to resort to this: (with the help if many Malagasy men and to the amusement of many children)


Finally, after many unforseen adventures in the taxi brousse I was home sweet home. My family were farmers. I had one sister aged 13 and two brothers aged 10 and 4. They were all super sweet and hospitable and really excited to host me. This area of Betafo is the first time that the SIT program has done village stays in this region so all of the families were super enthusiastic to host us and find out more about us. My family were farmers. They owned many plots of land in the area and grew crops such as corn, beans, potatoes, cassava,and of course, rice. We also had quite a family of animals as well- seven baby pigs, two big pigs, two baby cows, one big cow (I had fresh cows milk everyday- probably one of the best things in the world.), two dogs, a bunch of chickens and a rooster. 

Above is a picture of my house that I lived in. The bottom level is accessible by ground and is used as a kitchen and storage space. The second and third levels were living space- with a kitchen table and my parents bed and a sofa on the second level and me and my sister's room on the third level with the incredible terrace. And thats my four year old brother on the terrace- he was adorable- but a handful to say the least. 


My family owned a little epicerie that was outside the house and catered to all the villagers, cigarette needs, rum needs, soap needs and of course, my favorite, mofo gasy and beignets. If you do not know what mofo gasy and beignets are, which you probably don't, then it is time you come to Madagascar. Mofo gasy ("mofo" means bread in Malagasy and is pronounced "moofoo" and gasy is an abbreviation for anything MalaGASY) anyways, mofo gasy are these little english muffin type breakfast treats made out out rice flour- they are delicious! And I got them fresh every morning! Beignets are a Malagasy version of doughtnuts (beignet means doughnut in French) and they're basically these friend bread sugar things that are a heart attack on a plate but also totally delicious. 


I shared a room with my thirteen year old sister and spent most of my days helping with the farm work- milking the cow, fixing meals, picking corn... you know, the works. I was lucky enough to have a huge terrace outside my room where I could watch the beautiful sunsets, sunrises and enjoy the beautiful mountains and valleys of Betafo. 


Here's a picture of my sweet mother preparing dinner. The Malagsy use mainly charcoal for cooking (which unfortunately is destroying the environment and leaving urban centers like Tana, very much polluted). What is most likely cooking in this picture is rice. We had rice at every meal- breakfast lunch and dinner. To note as well- rice for the Malagasy is not the small side portion we are used to, it is a giant plate of rice with a little bit of loaka (the food that accompanies rice- usually meat, beans or veggies) on the side. For someone that is not a huge fan of rice, such as me, it made eating in the village especially difficult. 



Since I did not eat all of my portion of rice that I was given- A huge plate of it at all meals- My family  very much alarmed and were convinced I was hungry all the time. This resulted in my mother making me a giant bowl of homemade soup for snack (yes, snack) and sat and watched me to make sure I ate it and liked it. It wasn't as if I wasnt eating though- It was just at mealtimes I would eat five times the amount of loaka (the side dish served with rice- usually beans, veggie or meat) than the rice. And the malagasy eat ten time the amount of rice as loaka- so since they saw me not eating a lot of rice they assumed I was starving. Also- I forgot to mention that the Malsgasy are very very hospitable people, especially when it comes to food and especially in rural areas, where harvest is a sign of wealth, having hungry children (or guests in my case) is very much looked down upon. Needless to say, my initial though of maybe starving in the village was proven to be false- I'm pretty sure I gained five pounds. By the way, this photo above was taken from my terrace one morning- I was constantly amazed at how beautiful the landscape was. 


Sunday, my first full day in the village, brought a three hour long Catholic church service in Malagasy, in addition to a bake sale in the middle of the service- I guess to raise money for the church? I have learned not really to question things here much. Monday was the market day in Betafo. Everyone in the area went to the market on market day. some people had to walk miles to get to the market- this picture was taken on our (my mother and me) four kilometer walk to the market. More beautiful mountains. 


Do any of you know how rice is grown and harvested and eventually prepared to be eaten?? Well, below is a picture of a rice paddy, where rice is planted almost in a swampy environment. Then it is cut, harvested and dried to look like this picture above. (I don't claim to be an expert on rice growing by any means, I don't even like rice- so I apologize for any vagueness in my rice explanations. Anyways, on our way to the market, my mother and I stopped by her fathers house to introduce me- while I was there I also got to see a machine that shucks/ cuts? I don't quite know- but it does something to prepare rice. The little grains on the ground are rice grains in their shells that have just been cut off the stalks with this machine. 


After my little rice tour detour we continued on to the market. There, I encountered several other students from my program who were spending their days doing the same as me. We also met up with my brothers and sisters who go to school in the town of Betafo. But, when we first arrived at the market, my mother and I went into a hotely (Malagasy dive restaurant) for a snack- the diary in the area is ridiculously delish so we both got homemade yogurt and it was probably the most delicious yogurt I've ever eaten! After, we did a bit of shopping- she bought me a hat and bag as gifts in addition to a bracelet with pictures of Jesus all over it- I think she was trying to convert me because she was astounded that I did not practice any sort of religion. Before we met up with my siblings she took me to a beautiful lake in the town of Betafo- before I get into it though, I would just like to note that not only does this above picture have beautiful rice paddys but, that woman in the foreground is tying a basket full of live geese to the back of her bycicle. Like I said before, I tend to not ask- and just accept these things for the way they are. 


So we took a walk around the stunning lake surrounded by mountains- I ended up running into one of the girls from my program on my walk so I was lucky enough to have her take a photo for me-


After walking around the lake we met up with my siblings at their school, had lunch, bought some fruit at the market and then me and my host mother took a taxi brousse back home. It was a day well spent! Anyways, rather than boring you all with the crazy details of village life, I have selected a few photos that illustrate the rest of my stay. I developed a bit of a routine there after five days, and when I wasn't helping with cooking, cleaning or doing farm work, most of my time was spent lounging around, playing with children, reading and writing. 


Tuesday morning my mother took me to see a river just a short walk away from our house. It was like a little mother-daughter date- it was adorable. We walked along the banks of the river, I took some photos, she pointed out crops to me and then we sat on the grass and had snacks of mofo gasy and beignets. Oh- and I almost forgot to mention! My host mother spoke pretty good French so I was able to communicate with her using French. My father and sister spoke a little and my brothers only spoke Malagasy- so I was relieved that someone in the family spoke French well because it made the communication piece a whole lot easier!


Crossing the river Malagasy style-


As you can see by the photo above, I was well accustomed to Malagasy rural life. In this photo I am grinding grain to feed to the pigs and cows. Too badd my arms got tired after two minutes and my mother and father had to take over...


My cutie little brother and sister checking on the rice being cooked over the charcoal cooker. This was how we cooked meals every night.


My last night with the fam! My youngest brother Aro is in the front and Gael the ten-year old in the back. Unfortunately, my sister was not with us the last night because she had to take care of the children of a family member. Luckily I got to stop by her school the next day to say goodbye.


My goodbye pic! My parents are on the left side of me and the man on my right is a program parter who picked me up and decided that he wanted to be in the picture too- haha. 

Anyways, to wrap things up, I had a wonderful stay in the village with a fun, nice, and welcoming family! It was the experience of a lifetime- I learned so much about myself and malagasy life. The only setbacks were the constant food being shoved down my throat and the major flea infestation (my body is literally covered in nasty flea bites). Oh and I almost forgot to mention that most of the food and utensils served to me were not clean and washed in dirty water and I just decided that "If you can't beat 'em, join 'em" I decided to screw it and eat everything anyway. It worked out for me until the last day- luckily I was back in the care of SIT then but, we had a very windy ride back to our hotel. After some horrible nausea and one emergency bathroom stop on the side of the road- we arrived at the hotel where I took cipro, took a nap and then woke up to be magically better. It was the most mysterious illness but whatever it was its gone now-

I wish I could add more to my descriptions and stories of my village stay but I would be here forever and I have a busy week ahead of me and lots of things to do! It's my last week in Tana and I have a fifteen page paper to write in addition to prep for my ISP. I cannot believe how time has flown! At this time next week, I will be en-route to Diego Suarez in Northern Madagascar to start my ISP. I couldn't be more excited!!!!

Until next time-

~Love You All~

Sunday, March 11, 2012

Olivia + Tana = Reunited

So it was tough on Friday to say goodbye to Nosy Be and the coast. Back to Tana and back to reality is how it felt. Though it wasn't all bad, I was super excited to see my Tana family again and I know that I will be back in a town on the coast of Madagascar for my ISP. I wouldn't be able to leave without some parting photos though: 


Oh Nosy Be beach right outside my hotel, I will miss you dearly...


Enjoying our last moments of beach and vacation until we go back to the realty of Tana


Things aren't all bad though: It's a good thing that Madagascar has such a stunning landscape that I could see throughout my whole plane ride from Nosy Be to Tana


So Tana and I are reunited again. We got in late Friday night from the Antananarivo airport and took cabs back to our host families. I think the reason why I was not super bumed about leaving our vacation spot was the fact that my host family in Tana is so amazing and I have missed them bunches. I was actually homesick for my Tana host family while I was away, I guess that really says something about compatability and general awesomeness. Anyways, of course they were happy to see me as I was happy to see them. I went to bed on the early side on Friday night because I was a bit tired and Olivia and I had some fun plans for the next day...


So as you can see from two photos above... We took a trip to the University of Antananarivo, where Olivia studies English. Unfortunately, due to a student strike because students are not receiving their government-funded scholarships, the University is closed until July until a formal agreement can be reached. It is such a shame that these students are not able to have access the higher education they have worked hard to achieve. (Oh and that is a pic of me striking a silly pose on the university campus if you have not figured that out yet...)


After touring the University and stopping by Olivia's childhood home I decided to treat us to a cold drink and ice cream at the Hotel Colbert. The Hotel Colbert is a four star hotel in a more high end section of Tana which has an incredible patisserie and restaurant, adjacent to it. I was craving a good old American-style iced coffee or tea so I insisted on the colbert. We ended up ordering iced green teas which were reminiscent of the Panera iced green teas, if you have ever had one you know what I am talking about and trust me, they are deeeelish! So basically that drink hit the spot and satisfied my craving for the meantime. We also got ice cream- I got a scoop of homemade vanilla caramel swirl praline whch was probably one of the most incredible flavors I have ever had. After this, we went home, had lunch and continued adventuring around the city and window shopping of the afternoon. 


Sunday morning brought my host mothers 50th birthday and me being the master chef in the kitchen making pancakes. (I brought my family VT pancake mix and maple syrup for a gift from home)


There's the fam enjoying the pancakes! We also had nutella in the house so they ended up being nutella pancakes with maple syrup. I couldn't have asked for anything tastier!


The morning was made up of running errands for the big 50th birthday party that was going to be at the house tonight. For lunch, we decided to go out for a special treat for maman's birthday. We ended up at some French restaurant in the center of the city in the quartier of Analakely. I orders chicken cordon bleu which I thought was delicious, it is nice to have a comforting, familliar meal once in a while, not to mention, it was really tasty! Haha oh and I love how I am the only one looking at the camera in this picture. I also remembered I haven't quite introduced you all to my Tana fam yet. Well, starting with me and going counter-clockwise, there's my brother, Aine who is 12, next to him is one of my uncles who accompanied us, across from him is my sweet host mother and next to her is my jokester of a brother, Joe, he is 25. Olivia, my twin sister is taking the picture. 


After the delicious lunch, I decided to take advantage of having access to a car and being with my Malagasy family on a Sunday in Analakely. If I have not yet told you all, this is really the most dangerous part of town and where most of the crime and pickpocketing happens. I have had a friend get her purse snatched off her here and another who got her necklace torn off her neck, my host mother also got her earrings stolen while she was wearing them! This is also where most of the political demonstrations happen, so as you can see, one does not want to be wandering around here by oneself with valuables. To make a long story short, I took advantage of my relatively safe circumstances to snap a few photos of Analakely-


After that, we found ourselves back at the Colbert for ice cream. This time  was able to snap a few photos of the patisserie part of the colbert. Doesn't this look like heaven??? Oh and ps- I got praline ice cream this time and it tasted exactly like the hazelnut praline you would find inside of a chocolate. It was absolutely delicious!


So after our afternoon romp was when the party began. We spent the afternoon preparing for the large Malagasy family that was to come over and celebrate my host mother's 50th birthday with us. The food and company were great. I even got to chat in English with some family and friends that are trying to learn. I also made a few friends during that time as well as you can see from the photo above... haha


 Joyeuse Anniversaire Maman!!!
Maman cuts the delicious cakes we had made at one the local patisseries one of them was chocolate mousse which was my favorite. 

Basically in all, I am very glad to be back with my family in Tana. I cannot say enough great things about them and I cannot thank them enough for doing all of the wonderful things they have done. I only have one more weekend left with them and it saddens me greatly to think that I will have to say goodbye at some point- but that is then and this is now. I am going to enjoy every last second I have with them until I leave! Love you all!

It is time for me to go to bed. it is 11:15 here an I have to get up at  for classes tomorrow or else I could write much much more. But get prepared for the next blog entry which will detail where I have been in Madagascar thus far and where we plan to travel. 

~Much Love~



Sunday, December 25, 2011

Do they know its Christmastime?

I hope everyone has had a wonderful, loving, happy and peaceful Christmas. Christmastime is my most favorite time of the year. I have never been a super religious person but I love the holiday all the same. Actually, after my class on Christianity this past semester I feel like I appreciate the holiday a lot more. It's wonderful. Maybe it is because of all the magical childhood memories I associate with this season. Here are some things that I love about Christmas:

the smell of COOKIES in the air
holiday MUSIC
driving around town to view the CRAZY lit up houses 
the DECORATIONS in the stores
the excitement of going to sleep on Christmas EVE 
the way the light REFLECTS on the ornaments on the tree
the looks of kids faces when they see what SANTA has brought them
Christmas SPECIALS on TV
eating SWEETS on Christmas morning
laughing with FAMILY on Christmas morning
HAM on Christmas day
picking out gifts for my LOVED ones
the SPIRIT of LOVE and PEACE in the air
GIVING and SELFLESSNESS
the smell of Christmas TREES
lights TWINKLING on the tree
sitting on the stairs Christmas morning with HANNAH and SAM
WRAPPING gifts
EATING EATING EATING
being COZY
I dream of a WHITE Christmas

... As you can see I have many Christmas joys. And I'm sure there are many more that I have not thought of. I have so many Christmas traditions that I share with my family, I cannot imagine a holiday season without them. Here are some pics of this year's Christmas:





My mom got sick of dealing with crazy Christmas
tree drama so we finally decided to go the fake route this year... 

The annual "children at the top of stairs pic"

Such a good looking crew!




A Save the Children donation I made in
my family's name for maternal health
and education
My cutie little brother Sam
(Well he's not so little anymore...)


In all I had a wonderful Christmas, I hope everyone else has had a great day as well! :-) I would like to leave you with one of my most FAVORITE Chirstmas songs!!! (As a matter of fact, the titles pof this blog post and my last blog post are lyrics from this song). Oh and it has to do with Africa so its not a surprise that I would be obsessed with it :-P

SPEAKING of AFRICA... Today is the one month countdown date. ONE MONTH! I leave for a trip of a LIFETIME in ONE MONTH. I'm trying not to think of all I need to do up until then... I'm also trying not to think of things that are making me nervous about my trip... BUT other than that, I am so excited! I am well prepared for my journey with some of my gifts I received today (including a scuba mask and snorkel from my father! MAURITIUS here I come!)

Anyways, here is my most favorite Christmas song :-)